Real sex dolls are being touted as a probable and practical answer for people who are looking for casual, NSA sex that does not bring sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) into their homes and their lives.
The concern about STD has become very real as dating apps are promoting casual sex with perfect strangers whose sexual histories people have no idea about.
Caught up in the fantasy – and freedom – that casual sex promises, people are jumping on the dating app bandwagon – only to regret their rash decisions afterwards when they find that they have contracted a diseases and then passed it onto their wives or partners.
Here is a real life example:
Taylor, a strapping 32-year-old San Francisco resident, looks like he could be an Abercrombie & Fitch model. Standing at 6ft 4 inches with a sharply angular face and ginger red hair, he is eye-catchingly handsome.
He has been married for 9 years and has a 7-year-old son with his wife Stephanie, who’s a bit of a control freak. From the decision to get pregnant even before they were married, and insisting that he gets a vasectomy immediately after, she has managed to keep Taylor exactly where she wants him – at her constant beck and call.
Their sex life isn’t very good either.
Apparently, Stephanie has something unusual going on with her lady parts, or so she tells Taylor, and it makes intercourse painful and difficult. The problem is correctable, she assures her husband, because her friend had the same problem and she is all fine with sex now, after she has had an operation.
Stephanie is going to get the operation too, but until then, their sex life is going to be infrequent (and unsatisfying).
Stephanie has a deep fear that her husband is going to get into an extra-marital relationship, and she makes all kinds of suggestions to Taylor – like cutting off his balls (really!) – because she finds the sight of them a turn-off.
Taylor does not understand how he is being manipulated by his wife, and takes every suggestion she makes as a sign of their strong, loving and forever relationship. Other than cutting his balls off – he had to say no to that – he goes along with pretty much anything Stephanie wants for the both of them.
This situation continued for 9 years, until Taylor decided to try one of those dating apps for a short-term sexual encounter. His wife was going to be away for 6 weeks and this was the first time in 9 years that he could actually try doing something for his own pleasure.
Sure enough, Taylor found a girl. With his looks, it wasn’t hard. Angela came into his life as a short-term diversion, and the sex they had was mind-blowing. Even after his wife returned from her 6-weeks trip, Taylor found he could not totally give up Angela as he had initially planned to do.
Given how Stephanie kept tabs on his every movement, meeting Angela for sexual trysts was extremely difficult. But on rare occasions, he managed to do it. The rest of the time, he fantasized about sex with Angela even while he told himself that he loved Stephanie fully and completely, and she was his first and only priority.
And then, one day, it happened.
Taylor noticed abnormal discharge and itching around his genital area. He applied hot pads and ointments, but the problem refused to go away. When he developed small puss-filled boils around the tip of his penis, the writing was on the wall.
Taylor had contracted a sexually transmitted disease (STD). And what was worse, he must have passed the infection on to his wife because they had had sex a few times since he had last been with Angela.
Taylor’s `happy’, marital life suddenly collapsed into a million broken pieces. Racked by guilt, shame and a feeling of “how-could-this-happen-to-me”, he could not even look Stephanie in the face. Even as he waited for his test results to come back, he kept trying to visualize how he could tell his wife that she possibly had STD. Something he had brought into their life because of just one affair with just one girl…
And so it goes with millions of Americans all over the country. One short sexual encounter can change lives forever. Several strains of STDs are not fully curable and people become marked by disease forever. From here on, every time they are attracted to a person of the opposite sex, they have to make the terrible decision of whether or not to tell that person that they are carrying a sexually-transmitted disease.
What a way to love! What a way to live!
STD Is A Silent Epidemic That Is Steadily On The Rise
More than 42 percent of Americans between the ages of 18 and 59 are infected with genital human papillomavirus, according to a report published by the National Center for Health Statistics.
In an article published by the New York Times, certain high-risk strains of the virus have infected 25.1 percent of men and 20.4 percent of women. These strains accounted for approximately 31,000 cases of cancer each year, other studies have shown.
Syphillis is making a comeback and Chlamydia and Gonorrhea are the two most common sexually transmitted diseases. But, because a lot of people do not come out in public with their STD status, it is difficult to control and fight the epidemic.
What’s even worse is re-infection. Getting treated for certain STDs do not mean that a person will not get re-infected in the future.
Are Real Sex Dolls A Part Of The Solution?
Sex experts certainly think so.
“Dating apps make it easier to find partners who will consent to risk sexual activities,” says sexuality counsellor Dr Michelle Mars. “But leaving home to have casual sex is likely to decrease as technologies become more lifelike. Robots [real sex dolls] do not have viruses as they cannot catch human diseases.”
• Indeed, a major plus point with real sex dolls is that they do not contract sexually transmitted diseases.
• Real sex dolls are so lifelike in their appearance that they can easily stand in for the sort of experience people have during a one-night affair. (Read our article about how sex dolls are helping to preserve long-distance relationships by clicking here.)
• Casual sex trysts have no emotional connection. No relationship status. When you look at casual sex as merely a means to get off, then it is not hard to visualize a real sex doll providing the same benefits.
• There is zero chances of contracting STD from indulging in unprotected sex, because you were too drunk to take precautions. Keep your real sex doll clean and you never have to worry about wearing condoms again.
• Real sex dolls do not count as `cheating’, and there is no risk of relationships getting destroyed by revelations of infidelity – especially if the presence of a real sex doll is a consensual choice made by an attached couple.
• Real sex dolls can be thoroughly cleaned out and disinfected after use. So there is little chance that any bacteria from your own sexual fluids will ever infect you.
• Sex doll brothels will soon explode on the global scene. The demand for them is certainly there. The famous one which opened this year in Barcelona, Spain, had to close because of complaints by real life prostitutes. But another one is likely to open in UK, and soon we will witness more such establishments coming up in the world’s top destination cities.
• For business travelers, brothels with real sex dolls are such a winning proposition because they can have sex outside their marriage and not feel guilty about cheating or picking up sexually transmitted diseases. Plus, the silicone or TPE creatures are so lifelike, they promote a strong vibe of fantasy and sexual arousal.