As a new owner or potential owner of realistic sex dolls, you must have a lot of questions that you cannot find easy answers to. The sex doll industry is a niche that offers very little online information, tips and helpful suggestions to assist new hobbyists and customers.
To simplify and support your search for the realistic sex doll of your dreams, we are putting together a handbook of common FAQ, (frequently asked questions) that most new sex doll owners are looking for.
Read through them and you’ll emerge a LOT more knowledgeable about this niche hobby and niche lifestyle you are about to step into.
Welcome! It is our hope that you fully enjoy this journey into a whole new realm of companionship and romance…
Q: How safe is my privacy if I buy realistic sex dolls?
A: Sex doll retailers are highly sensitive about privacy issues, because without it their business will suffer tremendously. Shop from a reputable online store, and nobody is ever going to find out. From credit card bills to shipping and handling – the whole transaction is done with utmost discretion and security, and you really don’t have to worry too much about this. (Read our article on 5 reasons why you should not be afraid of buying realistic sex dolls.)
Q: What material is used to make good-quality and realistic sex dolls?
A: The primary material you will find sex dolls in are medical-grade silicone and TPE (thermoplastic elastomer). Both materials are synthetic, hi-tech compounds that have the touch and texture of real-life skin.
Q: I am confused about sex doll sizes. What would be an average-sized sex doll?
A: Approximately 160 cm-165 cm. Another benefit of choosing this size is that they look the most realistic, with body features like breasts and buttocks that are not too exaggerated.
Q: Are realistic sex dolls waterproof?
A: Yes. Given the kind of recreational activities that sex dolls are meant to be used in, manufacturers make sure that the dolls are waterproof enough to have showers and baths.
Q: How long does a realistic sex doll last?
A: Depends a lot on the quality of the realistic sex doll you buy. That said, with proper care and maintenance, an average sex doll can enjoy a long lifespan of 7-10 years, or maybe even more. The longevity of realistic sex dolls makes it well worth the investment.
Q: Are realistic sex dolls unhygienic?
A: No. The sex dolls are built in such a way that they can be spot cleaned and given full baths as well. Hop over to these 2 sex doll cleaning guides we have put together for you. One article is on how to clean silicone sex dolls and the other is about how to clean PTE sex dolls.
Q: Can realistic sex dolls give me STDs (Sexually Transmitted Disease) like Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and HPV?
A: Keeping your sex doll clean for your own personal use is a primary responsibility that lies with all sex doll owners. Follow proper maintenance and care routines and you are quite safe to enjoy playtime with your doll. Your sex doll can reduce risks of STD and other infections that you can pick up from casual one-night stands.
Q: Can I share my realistic sex doll with friends?
A: This is a highly questionable and risky practice. Realistic sex dolls can be expensive, depending on what model you choose, and many people want to buy one with pooled money.
But sharing the same doll with multiple people is risking the whole gamut of sexually transmitted diseases and putting the doll in unsanitary living conditions.
Please refrain from sharing your new realistic sex doll with friends. She belongs to you, and you must respect her happiness, health and privacy.
Q: Can I put make-up on my realistic sex doll?
A: Most dolls come to you already looking glamorous and groomed. However, a lot of sex doll owners like to give them new looks with their own sex doll make-up. You can safely do that, as long as you take care to remove all the cosmetics afterwards with antimicrobial soap and a moist washcloth.
Be very careful not to choose cheap cosmetics with questionable ingredients. You don’t want to leave stains on your sex doll that will prove hard to remove afterwards.
Q: Can I dress my realistic sex doll?
A: Absolutely! We’re sure that your sweetheart would love to have a lovely wardrobe of fashionable clothes. Your sex doll has come to you with her bust, waist and hip measurements included in the packaging. All you got to do now is go shopping for her at a woman’s clothes store.
Remember though, not to tug, pull or push too much to get her into complicated clothing. You don’t want to cause structural damage that way.
Q: Can my realistic sex doll wear all kinds of clothes?
A: Yes, you can dress lifelike sex dolls. But it is best to avoid thick fabrics, such as denim jeans. Tight or heavy clothing can leave an impression on a silicone sex doll’s skin, which will become permanent after a while if you don’t take it off right away (7-10 days). If you still want your girl to dress casually in jeans, put a pantyhose on her first — as a layer of protection — before you slide on the jeans.
Q: I have a fancy for bras. Can I buy my sex doll different styles of bras?
A: Be careful not use bras with underwire. And as always, take the bra off after playtime, and don’t just leave it on.
Q: I have accidentally caused some stains of my sex doll’s body. What do I do?
A: We recommend that you use a special stain remover that is formulated for use on sex dolls. Don’t try scrubbing or using harsh chemicals. You can permanently ruin the silicone or TPE skin that way.
Q: Do sex dolls have an odor?
A: No. Sex dolls are odorless.
Q: Can I spray perfume on my doll?
A: The alcoholic content in perfumes can discolor your sex doll and leave patches on her smooth, beautiful skin. Some perfume enthusiasts still go ahead and apply perfume in hidden parts of the body, but we doubt you want to deface your precious doll like that.
Our suggestion is that you use special perfumes that have been formulated for silicone and TPE sex doll skin. Read our article that discusses all the amazing and aphrodisiac essential oils you can choose from to heighten sexual sensations during sex doll playtime.
Q: Can I use silicone inserts in a TPE doll?
A: No. This is a bad idea because silicone causes a chemical reaction that forces precious mineral oils to bleed out of the TPE. As a result, the TPE skin can shrink, dry up and crack.
Q: Can I use a hair dryer to warm my realistic sex doll’s skin?
A: Absolutely not! Hair dryer should not be used for any purpose on your sex doll. There are other things you can do instead. Sit her in a warm bath (not hot), or wrap her in an electric blanket, give her a warm towel down or insert an USB orifice warmer. The silicone/TPE skin material will retain heat and give you a fair simulation of body temperature. Some high-end dolls do come with self-heating technology and you will see more of that in the near future.
Q: Do realistic sex dolls contain any toxic material?
A: No. As long as you buy your sex doll from a reputable store, and not from some fly-by-night scam operator located halfway around the world, you have no worries on that score.
Q: What is the best way to store realistic sex dolls?
A: Your sex doll is equipped with an internal skeleton that allows her to move her body in different ways and assume a variety of sexual positions. But the mechanism should not be challenged by bad storage practices as that can cause permanent damage.
To make sure that she is always protected and comfortable when you’re not using her, we suggest that you use proper storage kits that have been designed especially for sex dolls.
It’s a worthy expenditure because with a pre-designed storage solution, you can put her away in the cupboard quickly and efficiently, and not worry that her posture is getting ruined by the way her body parts are positioned.
Q: What is the best way to hold a sex doll when moving her around?
A: The best way to carry your doll is in the bridal position or bear hug. Be careful not to accidentally drag or pull the hands and feet when carrying her. (Read our article about how to move a sex doll without damaging it.)
Q: Can I take my sex doll outdoors?
A: That is a personal choice. But make very sure you do not expose your sex doll to direct sunlight.
Q: How much do realistic sex dolls weigh?
A: Depends on the height of the sex doll. The taller she is, the heavier she will be, and some can weigh as much as 100 pounds. Typically, silicone dolls are heavier than TPE because of the nature of the material. Many manufacturers have managed to significantly reduce the weight of their dolls by re-proportioning and re-sizing them, so they weigh around 60 to 80 pounds. As a general rule of thumb, silicone dolls weigh around half of real humans.
Q: What will be the lightest kind of realistic sex dolls in the market?
A: Blow-up or inflatable dolls. They don’t have any skeletal framework and are hollow inside. That said, blow-up dolls are very, very basic and do not offer the high degree of pleasure that life-like, realistic sex dolls made of silicone or TPE do.
Q: How tall is are life-size, realistic sex dolls?
A: TPE and silicone sex dolls start from about 5 feet and can be as tall as 5 feet 7 inches on average, or even taller in some cases.
Q: What is the difference between mini sex dolls and life-sized ones?
A: The main difference is height and weight. A mini sex doll can be anywhere between 4 ft and 24 inches in size. The smallest ones do not have oral or anal orifices. Only vaginal sex is possible with them. Mini sex dolls are cheaper than life-sized ones, but naturally, the quality of the sexual experience is not as authentic.
Q: What kind of lubricants can I use when having sex with my doll?
A: Only use water-based lubricants in your doll’s orifices because you don’t want to risk tearing her skin accidentally. Don’t use silicone or petroleum-based lubricants.
Q: What are `renewal powders’ for realistic sex dolls?
A: These are specially-formulated powders that you must use after cleaning or bathing your doll. The ingredients in renewal powders enhance the skin and make it supple and velvet-smooth to the touch. They also make your doll’s skin more damage resistant.Q: How do I clean my sex doll’s wig?
A: The basic materials you will need are a wig stand, shampoo, conditioner and correct combs and brushes for the job. If you are a new sex doll owner and don’t have a lot of experience in this, we recommend a complete kit of wig care products. These kits come with everything you will need and take all the guesswork out of the job.
Q: I have some special preferences and wondered if I can get customized labia and nipples on my sex doll?
A: Yes, some retailers will design customized labia and nipples to your specifications. For an extra cost, of course.
Q: Can the skin tone of my sex doll be customized to my needs.
A: Yes. Most sex doll manufacturers offer a variety of skin tones — from black sex dolls and tan sex dolls to several shades of light, white skin – but if you’re looking for something special, it can be customized for you.
Q: Can I have a customized celebrity sex doll?
A: It is illegal to replicate any particular person without their express consent, but not too far in the future, you will have movie stars, models and other celebrities licensing their likeness to the sex doll industry. For now, some manufacturers will design a “close” resemblance for you without breaking any laws.
Q: Why is it hard to find chubby, BBW sex dolls for people who like some extra flesh and curves on their partners?
A: Weight is the primary problem. Adding to the body size can make the sex doll too heavy for easy use and mobility.
Q: I have a preference for pubic hair. Can I get realistic sex dolls with pubic hair?
A: Yes, some sex doll models do have pubic hair (made of hand-knotted human hair).
Q: Are male sex dolls and gay sex dolls different in any way?
A: No. Male sex dolls have the same physical structure as gay sex dolls with a penis, penetrable anus and mouth. How you choose to use them is quite up to you.
Q: Why are all sex dolls blonde and busty?
A: Actually, that is not true anymore. Once upon a time, busty sex dolls and blonde sex dolls dominated the market. Today, other categories have been developed to cater to a wider range of tastes. For example, black sex dolls, Japanese sex dolls, flat-chested sex dolls etc. Check out our “Buy A Doll” section to see galleries of the most popular sex dolls available in the market today.
Q: I love piercings on my sexual partners. Can I give my sex doll some piercings?
A: Generally speaking, yes. Always use a straight piece of jewelry rather than a curved bar. Piercing holes will become permanent after a few days. When using earrings, do not use the earring backs. Also, check with the company’s customer support and make doubly sure that you can safely add piercings to your realistic sex doll before doing it.
Q: Can I put tattoos on realistic sex dolls?
A: Yes. A lot of retailers offer temporary tattoos that you can use to give your sex doll some cool, skin art.
Q: If I want to save money and buy an inflatable sex doll, will the sexual experience be the same?
A: The short answer is no! Inflatable or blow-up dolls were some of the first cheap sex dolls ever made that basically is a plastic balloon with vaginal and oral openings.
They are cheap in price, as well as in experience because they have no substance. While they are roughly the size of a real woman, they do not have realistic weight, and they are of poor quality and finish overall. Even with generous amounts of lubricant, the sex openings often have rough edges, which leads to a very poor sexual encounter. Inflatable sex dolls are also very easily damaged.
They do not provide a fulfilling sexual experience and should not be used by anyone who is serious about what they are after when it comes to a sex doll.